Awe, sorry to hear man 
sorry
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shit sucks, and so many people struggling these days too. Sorry for your loses.
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Karen Allen. Like the actress Karen Allen?
Thanks guys. This one just hit me kinda hard.
Never easy man, they always hit hard Best to take a day or two and just grieve. Always the best thing to do. Remember the good times! Life isn’t fair man
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Just started a group chat on FB with Jo’s 3 daughters about her 50th birthday. She’s taking that age hard so I’m planning some amazing stuff for her to help launch her into her 50s on an epic note.
I’m taking her to see 4 of her favorite 80’s rock bands at “MY” favorite place on this earth, Fenway. Motley Crue, Poison, Def Leppard and Joan Jett. She is such a damn 80’s baby. 
But that’s not til August and her birthday is in May so I’ll spring that news on her then.
But on her birthday I’m taking down to the Chartroom Restaurant on the water on Cape Cod then off to watch the sunset from a lighthouse in Falmouth, I don’t think she’ll soon forget that. Nobody has done stuff like this for her before.
And she really wants to go see our friends’ band play with her kids, their guys and our friends.
Gonna do all of this. She deserves. She is sweetest, kindest person this side of my mom in my life.
The screwy thing is in the group chat with her kids one of her daughters keeps giving me shit. She hates me while other 2 absolutely adore me.
Really is kinda messed up cause we are very, very similar in our likes and passions. We both love to read, we both like kinda dark stuff and our musical tastes are the same.
She has never liked and I that’s a shame cuz we both kinda rock. 
Anyway I guess my point is Bitch, it’s your mom’s 50th, lets rock this thing. 
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Tough situation and if the kid really wants her mother happy she can get along with everyone, relax and enjoy. I have a friend in a kind of similar spot, his youngest daughter is pissed he met a woman after their mother passed (two years later). They are in the mid 70’s and a great couple, why would a child be upset at their parent being happy - in your case having a good friend who is making sure she gets a proper celebration.
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I’m turning 50 in May also.
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No shit, what day if I may ask?
May 30
Damn Gemini like me. June 9th. Damn split personalities.
Yes, Indiana Jones’ girlfriend Karen Allen.
Freaking nice. Thanks.
Me at work
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Lmao I hear you man! Today feels like that for aure.
My ex-girlfriend and dear friend Cindy successfully fought colon cancer last year. We celebrated that great news exactly a year ago today with all of our friends at a club. Then today she called me in tears. It’s back.
Fuck this bullshit disease.
Ugh man sorry sending positive vibes her way. Fuck cancer.
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Damn. That sucks.
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Sorry to hear this. Maybe Cindy catches a break.
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Hey, TheP. I just resurrected your insomniac thread from ash heap of history. Not sure if that’s a good or bad thing.